ACADEMIC OVERACHIEVER FEELS HE'S SOCIALLY BEHIND THE CURVEYour advice for LONELY GUY in the comments below, please. Also, it's time for a new round of questions from the Blackfive and/or military community, so please email them to me at enlistedswine at the G.
DEAR ABBY: I am a 20-year-old male living what appears to be "the dream." I have completed my bachelor's degree, and I'm starting what will more than likely be a prosperous career. Still, something important is missing. All my life I have always felt very isolated. Although I have been able to develop "friendships," the more I progress in life the more these friendships slip away.
I have been unsuccessful in finding a mate, and I am embarrassed to still be a virgin. Is there something horribly wrong with me that drives people away? -- LONELY GUY, MONTREAL, CANADA