BlackFive

Infantrymen, your counsel is requested:

SAILOR'S GIRLFRIEND STRUGGLES TO SET COURSE FOR THE FUTURE

DEAR A-10 Warthog: I'm so confused. I was seeing this guy, "Stan," for almost three years. Then he joined the Navy. Before he left, he told me not to wait for him, so we broke up.
Several months later, I began dating "Ollie." Things were getting serious, and I discovered I was pregnant. When I told Ollie about the baby, he dumped me.

Meanwhile, Stan came home on leave. He told me he loved me, and asked me to wait for him to finish his training, and then we would be together again. About a month later I suffered a miscarriage.

Not long after that, Ollie came to see me and I told him I had lost the baby. He told me he knew he had been wrong to leave me when he found out I was pregnant, and said he wanted us to get back together.

I am deeply in love with Stan, however, he's not here and Ollie is -- and frankly, I care for him, too. -- NEEDS AN ANSWER IN VIRGINIA

As always, your advice in the comments below, please.

-- Uber Pig